Last Sunday, we got news of Tamie’s Aunt suddenly passing away and had to head to Nagano for a funeral on Thursday. We took the kids via shinkansen (ie. bullet train) the night before the service and stayed overnight at a small hotel. We came back directly after the service and got home very late Thursday night. This was the second funeral in Japan we’ve been to and it’s never easy – hopefully it will be the last one we have to go to for a long time.
Friday, my company had an inaugural poker game between colleagues and it was a big hit. I don’t know that we played by all the right rules but no one complained and everyone there seemed to have a great time… even if only one guy had any luck. Unfortunately that one guy was not me.
Saturday was raining so we couldn’t do anything outside, so we went to the beach… because right next to the beach is the aquarium where we had a day of fish and fun. Layla always enjoys seeing animals so long as they are behind glass or cage, so she had a blast. This time, though, she even touched TWO fish at the touching pool. Her smile after touching those fish was so big you’d think she just won the lottery… and in some ways, she just might have. Conquering one of her many fears is definitely a great accomplishment.
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| Aquarium |
Today (Sunday) was the day of Layla’s birthday party at her Baba and Jiji’s house. It started out with us meeting Jiji at Hon-Atsugi so he could take her to see a kid’s stage show. She’d been excited to see the show for many weeks leading up to it and even this morning she was raring to go… she made it half-way through before she wanted to leave. When I asked her after if she had fun, she says she enjoyed but next time she wants her Mom to come too. Just one more fear to conquer, I guess.
While the show was on, Tamie and I did some shopping and picked up a few things for the birthday girl. She was getting spoiled, but a girl only turns 4 once, right? Or twice in this case since it’s actually not her birthday yet… once we had a hula hoop, a set of tennis-like rackets, and some sparklers we headed over to the grandparent’s house for the party. That’s where we found out that even if the show must go on, Layla didn’t have to stay.
We celebrated her birthday with a some cake and tea, followed by opening presents, followed by a big Sukiyaki (BEEF!) dinner. It was a great time and Layla was quite happy with all the gifts from everyone. She told me “Since my birthday is really in 3 days, maybe I’ll get another cake, eh? Maybe?” All I could do was laugh and answer back with another “maybe.”
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| Layla’s Birthday Party |



